I know people are going to hate me for this and I will be called a sexist and every other name that they can think of but feminist should take a break and see that they have gone too far.
As I move into my sixties I see many of my peers, men and women , living alone. Some had brief marriages that maybe lasted 3 or 4 years but basically are facing old age alone with no mate and for most no children. They try to be happy and they try to keep active, but when they talk about themselves, they cannot hide the regret.
It is only natural to find a mate and raise a family. This has been the goal for humanity for thousands of years. Men and women are meant to be together, neither is whole without the other. Nature had designed us to compensate for each other. Men have certain innate talents and so do women but they are different from each other and need each other.
I do believe women should have their freedom to do as they please as men do but to assume they don't need men in their lives is to deny themselves the only thing worth living for, to raise a successful family.
I have some female friends that are hitting their 40's and 50's, that put their career first and their basic desires were put on hold. They looked for the perfect mate that would accept them for who they are. But they would not accept anyone that didn't fit in to their illusion of the perfect man.
So ,after feminism achieved their goal to give women equal rights, they should have went home. But they pushed the agenda way past balance and created a war between the sexes.
This has affected men in a negative way. Sensing hostility from some women just because they are male, some men have taken advantage of this new found liberty for women by using them as sex objects and then discarding them without any remorse.
Before abortion and birth control, women could not have one night stands without consequences like a man could. But with this new freedom, men could put more pressure on women to have sex with them because after all,pregnancy was not a option. Feminism was the best thing that could have happened for men that seek sex without commitment.
As I move into my sixties I see many of my peers, men and women , living alone. Some had brief marriages that maybe lasted 3 or 4 years but basically are facing old age alone with no mate and for most no children. They try to be happy and they try to keep active, but when they talk about themselves, they cannot hide the regret.
It is only natural to find a mate and raise a family. This has been the goal for humanity for thousands of years. Men and women are meant to be together, neither is whole without the other. Nature had designed us to compensate for each other. Men have certain innate talents and so do women but they are different from each other and need each other.
I do believe women should have their freedom to do as they please as men do but to assume they don't need men in their lives is to deny themselves the only thing worth living for, to raise a successful family.
I have some female friends that are hitting their 40's and 50's, that put their career first and their basic desires were put on hold. They looked for the perfect mate that would accept them for who they are. But they would not accept anyone that didn't fit in to their illusion of the perfect man.
So ,after feminism achieved their goal to give women equal rights, they should have went home. But they pushed the agenda way past balance and created a war between the sexes.
This has affected men in a negative way. Sensing hostility from some women just because they are male, some men have taken advantage of this new found liberty for women by using them as sex objects and then discarding them without any remorse.
Before abortion and birth control, women could not have one night stands without consequences like a man could. But with this new freedom, men could put more pressure on women to have sex with them because after all,pregnancy was not a option. Feminism was the best thing that could have happened for men that seek sex without commitment.
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