Because of the recent bombardment of sexual harrassment allegations, I think it is time to define the distinction between sexual harrassment and seduction. So, as a man who loves women and has chased them all my life, I thought I would set some indicators to educate young men the subtleties of seduction.
Now, I don't mean ugly rich guys, that if it wasn't for their money and power would lead the lonely life of a eunuch. You know the kind of guy that would go stag to a wife swapping party, you know, the kin d of guy that has to get his hand drunk to masturbate.
Now what exactly is sexual harrassment? If you find a woman attractive and attempt to get to know her better and she tells you to get lost. If you persist and she tells you that she is meeting her boyfriend ,who is a cop, or her father in the Mafia, chances are, she is not interested in you.
But how are you to know if you don't try, right? You cannot hit a homerun if you do not swing away, to use a baseball analogy. Because men are required to make the first move, what man cannot be accused of some sort of sexual harrassment. The rules are not clearly defined, is it one slap on the face or would two be sufficient. But what if the slap is a soft caress?
Now, I don't mean ugly rich guys, that if it wasn't for their money and power would lead the lonely life of a eunuch. You know the kind of guy that would go stag to a wife swapping party, you know, the kin d of guy that has to get his hand drunk to masturbate.
Now what exactly is sexual harrassment? If you find a woman attractive and attempt to get to know her better and she tells you to get lost. If you persist and she tells you that she is meeting her boyfriend ,who is a cop, or her father in the Mafia, chances are, she is not interested in you.
But how are you to know if you don't try, right? You cannot hit a homerun if you do not swing away, to use a baseball analogy. Because men are required to make the first move, what man cannot be accused of some sort of sexual harrassment. The rules are not clearly defined, is it one slap on the face or would two be sufficient. But what if the slap is a soft caress?
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ReplyDeleteIt's pretty obvious if a woman is interested. She smiles at you, her body language is inviting you closer, she's interested in what you have to say. I can tell if a woman is interested at the grocery store for goodness sake. She holds her gaze at you and usually smiles to some degree. What's so difficult to understand here?
ReplyDeleteIf you say Hello, hold or open a door, look at them...it is sexual harassment now days!
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